The 221 questions that turn two individuals into one unified, deeply connected team — the honest conversations most couples never know how to start.
Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?
Amos 3:3
Everybody enters marriage with expectations — hidden rules about how a marriage should function that we never say out loud, yet quietly expect our partner to obey.
When those unspoken expectations go unmet, couples rarely fight about it. They just stop reaching. Conversations get shorter. Assumptions replace understanding. And slowly, two people who once finished each other’s sentences become strangers sharing an address.
The most powerful thing a couple can do is start asking the right questions — before silence becomes distance.
You don’t rebuild connection by trying harder. You rebuild it by finally understanding each other — and understanding begins with a question you’ve never dared to ask.
The Marriage Discussion Guide gives you the exact questions, in the exact order, across every area where couples silently drift apart. No guessing. No awkward openings. Just honest, guided conversation that draws the heart to the surface.
“Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.” — Proverbs 20:5
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221 thought-provoking questions across 15 comprehensive categories.
Core ProgramComplete one category at a time — just 15–30 minutes each.
IncludedPull-out question cards for date nights, drives, and quiet evenings.
IncludedStep-by-step teaching that walks you through every category.
Included26 proven methods to resolve every kind of conflict before it costs you.
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These are the kinds of questions waiting inside. Read them slowly — notice which one you’ve never actually asked.
What’s one thing I do that makes you feel most loved — that I might not even realize?
What dream have you quietly given up on that you wish we could revisit together?
When do you feel most disconnected from me — and what do you wish I would do?
What does a truly happy marriage look like to you — and are we there yet?
What’s one conversation we’ve been avoiding that we need to finally have?
If you could change one pattern in how we communicate, what would it be?
Every area where couples silently drift apart — brought into the open, one guided conversation at a time.
No pressure. No performance. Just a proven rhythm any couple can follow.
Each partner completes their section independently and honestly — no editing for the other person.
Come together and read your answers aloud — the guide keeps it safe, structured, and calm.
Discuss what you discovered. Watch assumptions dissolve and real connection return.
Across the world, couples are using these exact questions to reopen conversations they thought were lost for good. Yours can be next — starting tonight.
The couple who asks the right questions before the wedding never has to answer the hard ones after it.
Uncover hidden expectations, align your values, faith and finances, and identify conflict areas before they become problems — all inside the same guide, plus the bonus Premarital Question Guide.
Lloyd Allen is a Marriage Educator, Family Coach, Theologian, Author, and Speaker — and the Founder and CEO of Fixing Marriage Academy, Inc.
Trained as a Marriage and Family Therapist at Barry University, with honors, Lloyd brings 30 years of experience helping couples around the world repair, restore, and rebuild their marriages.
Happily married and the father of two, Lloyd built this guide because the most powerful thing a couple can do is start asking the right questions — before silence becomes distance.
221 Questions + Full Course + 5 Free Bonus eBooks + Community Access
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Two individuals, one unified team. It starts with a single honest conversation.
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